Although I absolutely LOVE pickleball, nothing gets my blood boiling like being on the receiving end of “Keep-Away” during rec play. And it gets me very frustrated. Every time. You see, every once in a while, in a recreational game of pickleball, I’m deemed the stronger player on the team. And the opponents — you guessed it — hit seemingly every ball to my partner. All in the name of winning the game to 11. In rec. play!!! Not tournament play. Did I mention this is “recreational” play?
The Shot Chart Tells the Story
This particular blog post has been approximately 4 or 5 months in the making. Earlier in the summer, my partner and I had just finished playing a match against a very good doubles team. Unfortunately, I must have been considered the stronger player on this particular day — and, consequently, could count on one hand how many balls were hit my way in the course of a 15-minute game to 11. Of course, the exception would occur when my partner would inadvertently pop up the ball and the opponents would smash it at my feet — as if to say, “there, I hit you one!”
So, like the stubborn and sometimes immature partner I can be, I brooded — and I vowed to write a blog post about this situation. And shortly thereafter, with the “play-by-play” still fresh in my mind, I created a shot chart of where our opponents directed the balls when I played the odd court. As you can see from the shot chart, there was absolutely no reason for me to be on the court on this particular day. I could have just as easily put up a cardboard cut-out of myself and nobody would have known the difference!
It Happens Seemingly at Every Skill Level and at All Venues
We’ve all — at one time or another — likely been considered the stronger player when we play. Perhaps you’re a 3.5 rated player playing with three other 3.0 rated players — and you never see the ball. Perhaps you’re a 4.5 player, playing with three other 4.0 players — and you never see the ball. You could put that cardboard cut-out of yourself on the court and nobody would be the wiser. It’s not fun. You also came to play, exercise and work on your game.
And it happens everywhere. I’ve been “frozen out” of matches at my church where I first learned the game of pickleball, at my “home-town” pickleball club — and at various pickleball venues I visit. And my guess is, the exact thing happens to you from time-to-time.
Try the Opposite Approach
I like to take the opposite approach — but similarly, I have to be cognizant of not “freezing out” the weaker player — as it works both ways. You see, I prefer to hit to the stronger players to see how I stack up against a higher skill level. I want to see how these stronger players move, execute their shots and strategy — and perhaps, above all, I want to see if I can “hang” with them. It’s not so much about winning in the short-term as it is about improving and learning over the long run.
So, if the opportunity arises to play against a better player, make an effort to hit them the ball. It doesn’t have to be every ball — but don’t relegate them to being a cardboard cut-out. By doing so, you will get a better understanding of your strengths and weaknesses, which will only help to improve your own game — even if it means losing a recreational game here or there.
In a tournament, it’s good strategy!….In a social game with friends, it’s a bad strategy for the reasons you outlined.
Thanks, Don. Totally agree!
Love this article about being ‘frozen out’! 👏👍🏓
Thanks, Sharon! See you on the courts!
Great article and this subject is a major problem in Pickleball. As you say, it is the major strategy in Rec play. However, it is rude and anti-social.
The best approach that I have found is to say a few things to the players before you start. “Hi there, just to let you know, I am in a mode of extending points and will simply keep the ball in play, so if you would like some rallies, hit a few balls my way.”
The main point that I try to emphasize to the Pickleball world is that the sport today is blessed to have the better players willing to play with all levels. The better players, however, will arrange their own games like it is done in tennis if the weaker players never hit the ball to the better players. The answer to the problem is 2 fold:
1. To the better players — reset the point, don’t smash winners, extend the point and try to have longer rallies, work on your finesse and placement.
2. To the weaker players — hit to the better players. If one player is really good at hitting a drop shot into your kitchen, hit that player the ball as it will be an easier ball for you to play than a hard drive designed to beat you down.
I recognize that the larger percentage of players are trying to win the point as soon as possible. Watch their faces when a little higher ball comes their way. Then watch the pace that they hit the ball. It is no wonder balls are cracking. While watching a player smash a ball for a winner, I have started to say, “Now flex your muscles.”
There is nothing wrong with hitting a winner but don’t play every game with the intent of winning the point as quickly as possible. Work on some defense and think like a wall where where you simply get the ball back in play.
Great feedback, Gregg! Those are helpful points! See you on the courts!
I have the same problem, i get to play very little as they keep feeding most of the balls to my partner.
Very frustrating. The silver lining, however, is your opponents deem you the better player!
I’ve seen this happen too often in rec play and it’s totally ridiculous. Rec play is to improve your game, no matter what your level, yet too many people seem to have the goal of winning at all cost. I get it in a tournament, but just don’t get it in rec play. Then when you try to challenge people on it, some will act like they don’t know what you’re talking about. Others will laugh because they like what they’re doing.
Thanks, Petra, for your comments. Have a great week on the pickleball courts!
This is a regular occurrence in rec play and of course tourney play for me. I spin it to be practice for our tourney play. I can’t control what they do but I can control what I do and think. It helps me to be patient, pick my moments, make the best of my moments and support my partner. On my side I purposely hit it to the stronger player often to get their game back at me/us. I had a high level player tell me about rec play, “most of these people come here to win, this is not a tournament. You don’t need to win, practice your shots, the score is not important.” It changed my perspective completely on rec play. Yes winning is nice but improving my game and how I think is better. My doubles partner, my wife and I enjoy rec play much more now.
Great perspective, Joe. Thanks for sharing! See you on the courts.
Yup, last game I was ignored so badly that I briefly left the court to chase a loose ball before someone sprained their ankle. The ball never hit my side all the while.
My partner did not appreciate my leaving.
She refuses to play the net.
Hi Mel, I feel your pain! Tell your partner to get to the NVZ line. Unfortunately for you, hitting to the person not at the net is typically the smarter play.
I have told opponents in rec play that I’m keeping track of MY errors during the game, and that “last game, I only had three. Send more balls my way and see if you can force me to make more.” It worked. I got more shots, and, yes, made more errors. 😄 And got lots more practice!
I like it! Thanks for sharing.